So what if the US recession and the India slowdown means lower increments and no bonuses....Could pleasing God be a motive for work? Check out what Martin Luther had to say
“The works of monks and priests, however holy they be do not differ one whit in the sight of God from the works of the rustic labourer in the field or the woman going about her household tasks. But all work is measured before God by faith alone…….”
Martin Luther
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Friday, November 14, 2008
THE CEO from the East
I had a call from a friend from Malaysia, he is promoting the Blue Ocean strategy and they are starting a consultancy and organizing conference and workshop. I believe this strategy has helped many corporates to enhance their organization capabilities and productivity. I don't think any corporates, govenment, any radical or fundamental group should have problem with Blue Ocean Strategy.
There was great book written by Laura Beth Jones called Jesus the CEO, she presents Jesus not as religious leader but as an executive leader.. a kind of how-to manual for succeeding as corporate officers - internally, externally and for eternity.
Jesus has been my role model during my 10 years of Private Banking days ( HSBC/Deutsche Bank and Times Bank), he has changed me internally, externally and for eternity. Currently I am running a technology business and doing a business has its own challenges, then trying to emulate the principles of Jesus the CEO ( may be Blue Ocean could be simpler) adds another challenge. But that's where Jesus makes it very real and personal, in spite of the challenges I am able to relate with HIM and I very strongly feel HIS guidance and grace to face the uncertainities.
HE gives me hope where there is no hope and makes my future certain. THE CEO once said in his book, that we can't have confidence in HIM and also in Wealth. I choose my confidence in THE CEO from the East as for the last 27 years ( since the time I was introduced to HIM) HE has always kept his word and secured me .
God Bless
There was great book written by Laura Beth Jones called Jesus the CEO, she presents Jesus not as religious leader but as an executive leader.. a kind of how-to manual for succeeding as corporate officers - internally, externally and for eternity.
Jesus has been my role model during my 10 years of Private Banking days ( HSBC/Deutsche Bank and Times Bank), he has changed me internally, externally and for eternity. Currently I am running a technology business and doing a business has its own challenges, then trying to emulate the principles of Jesus the CEO ( may be Blue Ocean could be simpler) adds another challenge. But that's where Jesus makes it very real and personal, in spite of the challenges I am able to relate with HIM and I very strongly feel HIS guidance and grace to face the uncertainities.
HE gives me hope where there is no hope and makes my future certain. THE CEO once said in his book, that we can't have confidence in HIM and also in Wealth. I choose my confidence in THE CEO from the East as for the last 27 years ( since the time I was introduced to HIM) HE has always kept his word and secured me .
God Bless
Thursday, November 13, 2008
How Jesus can help motivate your workforce!
Sorry to stray a bit from the debate on conversions.
This post is meant for our CEO visitors!
Jesus wanted people to work really hard on their jobs! In fact he has given specific instructions to that effect in the Bible.
This is what Paul, a follower of Jesus has to say:
`Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not men.'
Paul wrote this in a book called Colossians (it is one of the many wonderful books in the Bible.)
Here is how I would interpret this for the modern workforce:
1) `All your heart' -- Put all your creative energies and all your strength into your work. Work hard, work with passion, work with commitment. Work with all your heart. So no Monday morning blues for those who are followers of Jesus
2) `As working for God not men' - Don't work only to please your boss, work for the greater good. In fact forget that you are working for your boss; think that you are working for God. Now God is not to be taken lightly. He knows the deepest thoughts and motives in your heart. So while you can fool around when working for your boss, you can't fool around if you are working for God. So give it all you've got and irrespective of whether your boss rewards you or not God will reward you. And hasn't anyone told you yet? You can kiss goodbye to all bonuses and fat appraisals until Obama yanks the US out of a recession.
So guess what? It pays to hire followers of Jesus in your company.
BTW, some of us here have designed a one hour motivational talk for the workforce based on words of wisdom lke this from the Bible. So any of you CEOs, reading this blog, leave a coment if you are interested and we will find a way of spending an hour pepping up your workforce!
Bye for now....
Anand
This post is meant for our CEO visitors!
Jesus wanted people to work really hard on their jobs! In fact he has given specific instructions to that effect in the Bible.
This is what Paul, a follower of Jesus has to say:
`Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not men.'
Paul wrote this in a book called Colossians (it is one of the many wonderful books in the Bible.)
Here is how I would interpret this for the modern workforce:
1) `All your heart' -- Put all your creative energies and all your strength into your work. Work hard, work with passion, work with commitment. Work with all your heart. So no Monday morning blues for those who are followers of Jesus
2) `As working for God not men' - Don't work only to please your boss, work for the greater good. In fact forget that you are working for your boss; think that you are working for God. Now God is not to be taken lightly. He knows the deepest thoughts and motives in your heart. So while you can fool around when working for your boss, you can't fool around if you are working for God. So give it all you've got and irrespective of whether your boss rewards you or not God will reward you. And hasn't anyone told you yet? You can kiss goodbye to all bonuses and fat appraisals until Obama yanks the US out of a recession.
So guess what? It pays to hire followers of Jesus in your company.
BTW, some of us here have designed a one hour motivational talk for the workforce based on words of wisdom lke this from the Bible. So any of you CEOs, reading this blog, leave a coment if you are interested and we will find a way of spending an hour pepping up your workforce!
Bye for now....
Anand
Its all about effective Communication!!
I too don't like that word Conversion, and I am against it. I will not support the cause of any form of conversion that is not out of conviction and I am not here to discuss the constituional rights and its legitimate impact. To me it is meaningless and I may not even get a chance of debating it - unless some one can be Reasonable, Intelligent and a person of Character*. (Character is defined as the willingness to accept responsibility for one's own life and it is the source from which self respect flows) who will allow me to express my take on the subject of conversion. The impact of being a FOLLOWER ( a better word than conversion) is not being comprehended by many who claim to be CONVERTED and its impact are as follows:
1. Firstly, FOLLOWERS tends to alter the politico-socio-economic fabric of our country. Since communalism is a huge issue in India and we do not have any uniform civil code ,for example communities like Muslims are governed by the Muhammadan law whereas Hindus by Hindu law. The tension of being a FOLLOWER is related to community borders becoming simultaneously harder and more vulnerable to comprehend the FOLLWOERS destination process.
2. Secondly, FOLLOWERS undermines the hierarchical system of caste and at the same time disturbs the rural economic system of India, in which high-caste land owners exercise tight control over lower-caste farmers. In this scenario FOLLOWERS are seen as a threat not only to caste system but also to the economic interests of the landowners and therefore opposed by landowners, as the tilling of the land is at stake.
3. Thirdly, certain political parties have an agenda to make India into a Hindu Rashtra. THAT IS PERFECTLY FINE. But should'nt do that through force or coercion, rather they should adopt a conviction approach . FOLLOWERS are a threat because such a person will vote differently (especially in tribal areas) thereby undermining the long-term political vision of the fundamentalist.
So I communciate THE IMPACT of the IMPACTOR that IMPACTED my life and HE is JESUS and not a religion, but a person who was born and raised in the EAST. He did not ask me to change my name , culture, tradition....My Name is Rajeev Menon... with a transplanted heart to love, communicate, share and come against all form of conversion (oops FOLLOWER) unless out of conviction.
1. Firstly, FOLLOWERS tends to alter the politico-socio-economic fabric of our country. Since communalism is a huge issue in India and we do not have any uniform civil code ,for example communities like Muslims are governed by the Muhammadan law whereas Hindus by Hindu law. The tension of being a FOLLOWER is related to community borders becoming simultaneously harder and more vulnerable to comprehend the FOLLWOERS destination process.
2. Secondly, FOLLOWERS undermines the hierarchical system of caste and at the same time disturbs the rural economic system of India, in which high-caste land owners exercise tight control over lower-caste farmers. In this scenario FOLLOWERS are seen as a threat not only to caste system but also to the economic interests of the landowners and therefore opposed by landowners, as the tilling of the land is at stake.
3. Thirdly, certain political parties have an agenda to make India into a Hindu Rashtra. THAT IS PERFECTLY FINE. But should'nt do that through force or coercion, rather they should adopt a conviction approach . FOLLOWERS are a threat because such a person will vote differently (especially in tribal areas) thereby undermining the long-term political vision of the fundamentalist.
So I communciate THE IMPACT of the IMPACTOR that IMPACTED my life and HE is JESUS and not a religion, but a person who was born and raised in the EAST. He did not ask me to change my name , culture, tradition....My Name is Rajeev Menon... with a transplanted heart to love, communicate, share and come against all form of conversion (oops FOLLOWER) unless out of conviction.
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
The beauty of Indian secularism
I don't know Rudroneel Ghosh, but this is a really good piece...
http://pressreleases.merinews.com/catFull.jsp?articleID=147078
Any counter arguments, anyone?
Here is Rudroneel's piece:
A re-look at religious conversions
In Indian secularism you have to be open to the idea that the religious demography of the country will not remain static. The Constitution guarantees us the right to practice and propagate our faith and that includes soliciting people to convert..
I WAS holding off writing this article for a while. Now that communal passions in the country seem to have cooled down to a certain degree, this would be a good time to have an objective analysis of the ’religious conversion’ debate. This, I believe, is extremely important because the problem at hand is intrinsically linked to the fundamental notion of India. We are a country that practices a unique brand of secularism that is found nowhere in the world. Every other country that holds the ideal of secularism sacred equates the same with the principle of separation of religion and state. But in India secularism means a state that gives each and every religion equal space. There is a fundamental difference which can be highlighted by juxtaposing India and the United States.
In the Unites States when they say America is a secular country they mean that irrespective of your religion, race or ethnicity, you are an American first and as an American you are entitled to the opportunities that the United States provides for you. In other words, in the US, or for that matter any country that says it practices secularism, a person’s religious background is of no consequence to the state. A person is free to practice any faith that he or she wants because it is inconsequential.
However, the Indian version of secularism is totally different. Secularism here means that a person has every right to freely practice and assert his or her faith. Religion in India is recognized as an integral part of our lifestyle and an inherent feature of our culture. As a result what this means is that the state of India acknowledges a person’s religion and would like to ensure that that person has no obstacles in practicing his or her own faith. In short, Indian secularism seeks inclusiveness of all religions whereas the secularism that is practiced elsewhere aims at keeping religion at bay.
That being said let us get to the crux of the problem. What we are witnessing today is symptomatic of our interpretation of secularism. But before I proceed let me make it clear that I have no problems with the same. I believe that this form of secularism is something that we should preserve and it is with this understanding that I put forward the following hypothesis.
The recent violence against Christians in Orissa and in other parts of south India has been largely understood to be a blowback against the vociferous conversion activities of Christian missionaries. It has been alleged that these missionaries indulge in forcibly converting people through allurements and deceit. This is also the position that political parties such as the BJP and other right-wing Hindu fundamentalist organizations have taken. What is surprising, however, is that a large section of educated Hindus who have condemned the violence have done so with a caveat that the conversion activities of the Christian missionaries must be somehow regulated. For the stand that more and more people are increasingly taking is that yes India is a secular country, yes a person should be free to practice his or her faith, but conversion activities should be best avoided and that the religious demography of the country must remain by and large constant.
Well I say this is all bunkum. If you believe in Indian secularism then you have to be open to the idea that the religious demography of the country will not remain static. The Indian Constitution guarantees us the right to practice and propagate our faith and that includes soliciting people to convert. In fact, to say that you are free to practice your faith but not preach the same is a misnomer. Freedom of religion is freedom of religion and there are no half measures in the same.
Now coming down to this entire business of the ’methods adopted to convert people’. Nobody in their right senses will support forcible conversions or conversions through deceit. If someone puts a gun to your head and tells you to convert or if someone creates such circumstances for you that you have no other choice but to convert against your own free will, then let me tell you that there are already laws against the same. You cannot make anyone do anything through intimidation or blackmail. As soon as someone does that it constitutes crime under the Indian Penal Code. Such crimes have nothing to do with religion and are, in fact, civil offences that warrant suitable punishment. Hence, there is already a judicial mechanism and a law and order machinery in this country to take care of cases of forcible religious conversion. But what about conversions through allurements?
As I understand it there is nothing wrong with religious conversions through allurements. If a Christian missionary or an Islamic organization is giving me loads of money to convert to their respective religions, they are well within their rights to do so. Banning the same will be like banning commercial advertising. If the makers of Suzuki cars have the right to entice me with a Sony home theatre if I purchase a Maruti 800, then the Dalai Lama foundation also has the right to lure me into becoming a Tibetan Buddhist with the promise of free supply of Smirnoff Vodka. The point is that this is not blackmail because I have the free choice to say no. Those who argue that the poor of Orissa’s KBK region and Kandhamal have no choice but to accept Christianity and call that blackmail, are simply wrong. First of all it cannot be called blackmail because poverty and hunger in Orissa’s backward regions are not the creation of Christian missionaries and is due to the failure of successive state administrations.
Second, even if we assume that the charitable work that the Christian missionaries are doing there is being done with the vested interest of converting people, then too I do not see what the fuss is about. If the starving poor, for whom the administration has done nothing, are being fed in the process I honestly don’t see the reason for complaining. The people who are being fed will surely not complain, and if that is the case then why should anybody else have a problem?
Yes, ideally the Church should feed people without telling them to convert and if certain missionaries are doing the opposite then all that means is that there is room for debate and reform within the Church itself. But there is nothing illegal that these missionaries have done so far and no Christian convert in Orissa has complained of being cheated by them. It is the VHP and the Bajrang Dal that has done the complaining and worse. Killing, raping and rendering people homeless is non-negotiable. These organisations have shamed us all and have injured the very spirit of our secular society. It is they that need to be banned.
http://pressreleases.merinews.com/catFull.jsp?articleID=147078
Any counter arguments, anyone?
Here is Rudroneel's piece:
A re-look at religious conversions
In Indian secularism you have to be open to the idea that the religious demography of the country will not remain static. The Constitution guarantees us the right to practice and propagate our faith and that includes soliciting people to convert..
I WAS holding off writing this article for a while. Now that communal passions in the country seem to have cooled down to a certain degree, this would be a good time to have an objective analysis of the ’religious conversion’ debate. This, I believe, is extremely important because the problem at hand is intrinsically linked to the fundamental notion of India. We are a country that practices a unique brand of secularism that is found nowhere in the world. Every other country that holds the ideal of secularism sacred equates the same with the principle of separation of religion and state. But in India secularism means a state that gives each and every religion equal space. There is a fundamental difference which can be highlighted by juxtaposing India and the United States.
In the Unites States when they say America is a secular country they mean that irrespective of your religion, race or ethnicity, you are an American first and as an American you are entitled to the opportunities that the United States provides for you. In other words, in the US, or for that matter any country that says it practices secularism, a person’s religious background is of no consequence to the state. A person is free to practice any faith that he or she wants because it is inconsequential.
However, the Indian version of secularism is totally different. Secularism here means that a person has every right to freely practice and assert his or her faith. Religion in India is recognized as an integral part of our lifestyle and an inherent feature of our culture. As a result what this means is that the state of India acknowledges a person’s religion and would like to ensure that that person has no obstacles in practicing his or her own faith. In short, Indian secularism seeks inclusiveness of all religions whereas the secularism that is practiced elsewhere aims at keeping religion at bay.
That being said let us get to the crux of the problem. What we are witnessing today is symptomatic of our interpretation of secularism. But before I proceed let me make it clear that I have no problems with the same. I believe that this form of secularism is something that we should preserve and it is with this understanding that I put forward the following hypothesis.
The recent violence against Christians in Orissa and in other parts of south India has been largely understood to be a blowback against the vociferous conversion activities of Christian missionaries. It has been alleged that these missionaries indulge in forcibly converting people through allurements and deceit. This is also the position that political parties such as the BJP and other right-wing Hindu fundamentalist organizations have taken. What is surprising, however, is that a large section of educated Hindus who have condemned the violence have done so with a caveat that the conversion activities of the Christian missionaries must be somehow regulated. For the stand that more and more people are increasingly taking is that yes India is a secular country, yes a person should be free to practice his or her faith, but conversion activities should be best avoided and that the religious demography of the country must remain by and large constant.
Well I say this is all bunkum. If you believe in Indian secularism then you have to be open to the idea that the religious demography of the country will not remain static. The Indian Constitution guarantees us the right to practice and propagate our faith and that includes soliciting people to convert. In fact, to say that you are free to practice your faith but not preach the same is a misnomer. Freedom of religion is freedom of religion and there are no half measures in the same.
Now coming down to this entire business of the ’methods adopted to convert people’. Nobody in their right senses will support forcible conversions or conversions through deceit. If someone puts a gun to your head and tells you to convert or if someone creates such circumstances for you that you have no other choice but to convert against your own free will, then let me tell you that there are already laws against the same. You cannot make anyone do anything through intimidation or blackmail. As soon as someone does that it constitutes crime under the Indian Penal Code. Such crimes have nothing to do with religion and are, in fact, civil offences that warrant suitable punishment. Hence, there is already a judicial mechanism and a law and order machinery in this country to take care of cases of forcible religious conversion. But what about conversions through allurements?
As I understand it there is nothing wrong with religious conversions through allurements. If a Christian missionary or an Islamic organization is giving me loads of money to convert to their respective religions, they are well within their rights to do so. Banning the same will be like banning commercial advertising. If the makers of Suzuki cars have the right to entice me with a Sony home theatre if I purchase a Maruti 800, then the Dalai Lama foundation also has the right to lure me into becoming a Tibetan Buddhist with the promise of free supply of Smirnoff Vodka. The point is that this is not blackmail because I have the free choice to say no. Those who argue that the poor of Orissa’s KBK region and Kandhamal have no choice but to accept Christianity and call that blackmail, are simply wrong. First of all it cannot be called blackmail because poverty and hunger in Orissa’s backward regions are not the creation of Christian missionaries and is due to the failure of successive state administrations.
Second, even if we assume that the charitable work that the Christian missionaries are doing there is being done with the vested interest of converting people, then too I do not see what the fuss is about. If the starving poor, for whom the administration has done nothing, are being fed in the process I honestly don’t see the reason for complaining. The people who are being fed will surely not complain, and if that is the case then why should anybody else have a problem?
Yes, ideally the Church should feed people without telling them to convert and if certain missionaries are doing the opposite then all that means is that there is room for debate and reform within the Church itself. But there is nothing illegal that these missionaries have done so far and no Christian convert in Orissa has complained of being cheated by them. It is the VHP and the Bajrang Dal that has done the complaining and worse. Killing, raping and rendering people homeless is non-negotiable. These organisations have shamed us all and have injured the very spirit of our secular society. It is they that need to be banned.
Friday, October 24, 2008
How this blog was born
In October 2008, deeply distressed by the persecution of Christians in Orissa, I wrote a column in Outlook magazine. It was titled I, the convert.
You can read it here: http://www.outlookindia.com/full.asp?fodname=20081027&fname=Conversions+(F)&sid=5 (Also appended at the bottom of this post.)
In the same issue, Outlook also independently interviewed Jaya and Rajeev (and three others.) You can read Jaya's and Rajeev's stories here:
http://www.outlookindia.com/full.asp?fodname=20081027&fname=Conversions+%28F%29&sid=6
(Also appended at the bottom of this post.)
Anand, Jaya and Rajeev...We are three followers of The Way.
Ours was a heartfelt and deeply personal account of how we came to follow Jesus Christ, even though we were all Hindus.
We were overwhelmed by the feedback to the column and our stories. Many met us, called and wrote to us appreciating, supporting and encouraging us for having written this. Many, many, many more criticised us.
This blog was born as a result of that experience. We would like to use this blog to invite people of all faith and people of no faith to come and debate -- peacefully and sensibly -- the issue of conversions in India and all over the world.
Hope you enjoy reading our stories (below)....and please do engage us in a spirited debate!
I, The Convert
"My conversion was not a change of religion; it was a change of heart"
Anand Mahadevan, Editor, Outlook Business
I was born a Brahmin and am the grandson of a priest whom I dearly loved. I am educated and my current professional standing indicates that I am reasonably intelligent. I am also affluent and my income would put me distinctly in the upper middle class bracket. I guess that would make me high-caste, rich and smart. In other words, I am not a tribal, or poor or dim-witted. And yet, I chose to become a follower of Jesus Christ.
The world would call me a convert to Christianity. I have no problems with that, though I see my faith more as a relationship with God through Jesus Christ than as a religion. And for the record, I can truthfully claim that no one financially induced or threatened or deceived me into converting to Christianity.
I am fiercely proud of my national identity as an Indian and I am completely at peace with my cultural identity as a Hindu. I retain the name my parents gave me. My wife, who also shares my faith, continues to go by her Hindu name. We have two children and we have given both distinctly Hindu names. In fact, many of my colleagues and acquaintances who may happen to read this column are likely to be surprised. They have no inkling about my faith, for I generally don't go about announcing it. But if someone does ask me the reason behind the joy and hope that is ever present in my life, I am always delighted to share it with them.
I write this piece to make one point—that my conversion was not a change of religion but a change of heart. To explain this, I need to go back to my childhood in Chennai, similar to that of so many other Tamil Brahmin boys like me. My grandfather, every bit the virtuous priest, had enormous influence over me. I absolutely adored him and as a toddler, always clung to him. He too loved me to a fault. There was no wish of mine that he would not rush to fulfil. But even in my early, formative years I was unable to relate to the religion he fervently practiced. Later, in my school days, I once spent my summer holidays with him in Trichy. Memories of dawn walks with him, for the ritualistic dip in the Cauvery river, cow in tow, are still fresh in my memory. I learnt many shlokas, some of which I still remember. But I never understood any of it and none of it helped me connect with God.
When I was 19, a Christian friend with whom I used to play cricket invited me to his house for prayer. If he had invited me to a pub, or party, I would have gone too. At his home, he and his sister prayed for me. It was a simple yet delightful conversation with God that lasted all of five minutes. I don't remember it verbatim, but they articulated a prayer of blessing on my life, future, career and family. It was a simple affair—no miracles, no angels visiting. All they did was utter a deep human cry out to the creator God and His only son Jesus Christ. When they said Amen, I felt in my heart a desire to follow Jesus.
It was a faith encounter with God that I shall not even attempt to understand, rationalise or explain. I simply accept it. It is my faith. It is what I choose to believe. That evening I did not change my religion, for in reality I had none. Hinduism was my identity, not my religion. It still is.
The Christianity I acquired that evening is not a religion. On the contrary, it is an intensely intimate relationship with Jesus. Over the past fifteen years, I have come to know this Jesus even closer. I know Him as the pure and sinless Son of a Holy God. And I know Him as a dear friend to whom I pray and talk to every day—about my career, my dreams, successes, failures, finances and even my sexuality.
If I read a good book, watch a good movie (Rock On is terrific, mate), or eat a good meal at a new restaurant, I would naturally tell my friends about it.In Jesus, I have discovered a truly amazing friend, guide, leader, saviour and God. How can I not tell all my friends about Him? And if anyone does listen and he too comes to believe in Jesus, I am delighted. The world would call it a conversion; I call it a change of heart, like mine.
But I would never force anyone to listen to me, leave alone financially induce, coerce or con him into believing. That to me is pointless and against the very grain of my faith. But I do have a constitutional right to practice my faith and to preach it without deception, force or bribery. It pains to see such basic rights of mankind being cruelly violated every day in this great Hindu nation.
God bless India.
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Jaya Ramamurthy, V-P (learning & development),
A business process outsourcing firm
"Born into a Tamil Brahmin family, I was brought up in an orthodox religious environment. We worshipped numerous gods and observed various rituals. Every Thursday, we also prayed to Sai Baba. At least 150 devotees would turn up at our house for the prayer sessions. Frankly, I could not make any sense of the rituals and yearned for a relationship with a god I could talk to, a god who would listen to me when I spoke to him.
"It was around this time that I was afflicted with scabies. I decided to go for a blind date with Jesus in the hope that I would be cured. To my surprise I was rid of my ailment. Years later, at 27, I decided to read the Bible. My mother threw it out of the window. But I did not give up and discovered a god I could talk to. Ever since, I have become far more friendly, and the love of god has changed my life. Today, when I speak, God speaks to me. My relationship with the Almighty has changed my perspective. I have become more respectful towards others."
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Rajeev Menon, CEO, N-Able Solutions
"Information technology companies require a strong process, otherwise there will be a delivery failure. There are proven processes of development and it is for the company to adapt them and standardise them.
"This also holds true in life. I was in my twenties and my life was a total mess. I had no peace of mind. I was going through a personal crisis. It was then that somebody gave me a book on Jesus. It slowly transformed me. My parents saw the change in me but allowed me to choose my faith. I go for prayer meetings regularly and I have renounced all forms of idol worship."
You can read it here: http://www.outlookindia.com/full.asp?fodname=20081027&fname=Conversions+(F)&sid=5 (Also appended at the bottom of this post.)
In the same issue, Outlook also independently interviewed Jaya and Rajeev (and three others.) You can read Jaya's and Rajeev's stories here:
http://www.outlookindia.com/full.asp?fodname=20081027&fname=Conversions+%28F%29&sid=6
(Also appended at the bottom of this post.)
Anand, Jaya and Rajeev...We are three followers of The Way.
Ours was a heartfelt and deeply personal account of how we came to follow Jesus Christ, even though we were all Hindus.
We were overwhelmed by the feedback to the column and our stories. Many met us, called and wrote to us appreciating, supporting and encouraging us for having written this. Many, many, many more criticised us.
This blog was born as a result of that experience. We would like to use this blog to invite people of all faith and people of no faith to come and debate -- peacefully and sensibly -- the issue of conversions in India and all over the world.
Hope you enjoy reading our stories (below)....and please do engage us in a spirited debate!
I, The Convert
"My conversion was not a change of religion; it was a change of heart"
Anand Mahadevan, Editor, Outlook Business
I was born a Brahmin and am the grandson of a priest whom I dearly loved. I am educated and my current professional standing indicates that I am reasonably intelligent. I am also affluent and my income would put me distinctly in the upper middle class bracket. I guess that would make me high-caste, rich and smart. In other words, I am not a tribal, or poor or dim-witted. And yet, I chose to become a follower of Jesus Christ.
The world would call me a convert to Christianity. I have no problems with that, though I see my faith more as a relationship with God through Jesus Christ than as a religion. And for the record, I can truthfully claim that no one financially induced or threatened or deceived me into converting to Christianity.
I am fiercely proud of my national identity as an Indian and I am completely at peace with my cultural identity as a Hindu. I retain the name my parents gave me. My wife, who also shares my faith, continues to go by her Hindu name. We have two children and we have given both distinctly Hindu names. In fact, many of my colleagues and acquaintances who may happen to read this column are likely to be surprised. They have no inkling about my faith, for I generally don't go about announcing it. But if someone does ask me the reason behind the joy and hope that is ever present in my life, I am always delighted to share it with them.
I write this piece to make one point—that my conversion was not a change of religion but a change of heart. To explain this, I need to go back to my childhood in Chennai, similar to that of so many other Tamil Brahmin boys like me. My grandfather, every bit the virtuous priest, had enormous influence over me. I absolutely adored him and as a toddler, always clung to him. He too loved me to a fault. There was no wish of mine that he would not rush to fulfil. But even in my early, formative years I was unable to relate to the religion he fervently practiced. Later, in my school days, I once spent my summer holidays with him in Trichy. Memories of dawn walks with him, for the ritualistic dip in the Cauvery river, cow in tow, are still fresh in my memory. I learnt many shlokas, some of which I still remember. But I never understood any of it and none of it helped me connect with God.
When I was 19, a Christian friend with whom I used to play cricket invited me to his house for prayer. If he had invited me to a pub, or party, I would have gone too. At his home, he and his sister prayed for me. It was a simple yet delightful conversation with God that lasted all of five minutes. I don't remember it verbatim, but they articulated a prayer of blessing on my life, future, career and family. It was a simple affair—no miracles, no angels visiting. All they did was utter a deep human cry out to the creator God and His only son Jesus Christ. When they said Amen, I felt in my heart a desire to follow Jesus.
It was a faith encounter with God that I shall not even attempt to understand, rationalise or explain. I simply accept it. It is my faith. It is what I choose to believe. That evening I did not change my religion, for in reality I had none. Hinduism was my identity, not my religion. It still is.
The Christianity I acquired that evening is not a religion. On the contrary, it is an intensely intimate relationship with Jesus. Over the past fifteen years, I have come to know this Jesus even closer. I know Him as the pure and sinless Son of a Holy God. And I know Him as a dear friend to whom I pray and talk to every day—about my career, my dreams, successes, failures, finances and even my sexuality.
If I read a good book, watch a good movie (Rock On is terrific, mate), or eat a good meal at a new restaurant, I would naturally tell my friends about it.In Jesus, I have discovered a truly amazing friend, guide, leader, saviour and God. How can I not tell all my friends about Him? And if anyone does listen and he too comes to believe in Jesus, I am delighted. The world would call it a conversion; I call it a change of heart, like mine.
But I would never force anyone to listen to me, leave alone financially induce, coerce or con him into believing. That to me is pointless and against the very grain of my faith. But I do have a constitutional right to practice my faith and to preach it without deception, force or bribery. It pains to see such basic rights of mankind being cruelly violated every day in this great Hindu nation.
God bless India.
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Jaya Ramamurthy, V-P (learning & development),
A business process outsourcing firm
"Born into a Tamil Brahmin family, I was brought up in an orthodox religious environment. We worshipped numerous gods and observed various rituals. Every Thursday, we also prayed to Sai Baba. At least 150 devotees would turn up at our house for the prayer sessions. Frankly, I could not make any sense of the rituals and yearned for a relationship with a god I could talk to, a god who would listen to me when I spoke to him.
"It was around this time that I was afflicted with scabies. I decided to go for a blind date with Jesus in the hope that I would be cured. To my surprise I was rid of my ailment. Years later, at 27, I decided to read the Bible. My mother threw it out of the window. But I did not give up and discovered a god I could talk to. Ever since, I have become far more friendly, and the love of god has changed my life. Today, when I speak, God speaks to me. My relationship with the Almighty has changed my perspective. I have become more respectful towards others."
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Rajeev Menon, CEO, N-Able Solutions
"Information technology companies require a strong process, otherwise there will be a delivery failure. There are proven processes of development and it is for the company to adapt them and standardise them.
"This also holds true in life. I was in my twenties and my life was a total mess. I had no peace of mind. I was going through a personal crisis. It was then that somebody gave me a book on Jesus. It slowly transformed me. My parents saw the change in me but allowed me to choose my faith. I go for prayer meetings regularly and I have renounced all forms of idol worship."
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